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Why We Can’t Expect People To Fix Themselves At Work

For many high achieving professionals, the post pandemic “workday” has turned into a 18 hour blur. It's not unusual for people to be emailing at 11 p.m. and then again at 5 a.m. Many forces conspire to stress us out, but the erasure of time-delimited boundaries and the reliance on digital media is a big one. It’s difficult to be well when you’re in a constant state of arousal and anticipation.

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How A Congressman Discovered The Path To Inherent Self-Worth (And Less Anxiety)

Do you believe you are worthy? Truly? For many years, United States Congressman Adam Smith managed anxiety and depression. And he hid it, and pushed through, until he couldn't anymore. After a lot of work and therapy, here's what Smith knows now: You can still be the same ambitious, obsessive, successful person but without "the self-loathing." Imagine that!

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What’s Behind Your Micromanaging Habit-- And How To Stop It

Feeling micromanaged sucks. And if you're like me, you micromanage people in your life and don't even realize it. Ugh. You micromanage because you're anxious, or overwhelmed, or just used to offering advice! EDHEC Business School's Prof. Dr. Julia Milner understands that most micromanagers mean well- and she wants to help us break the habit. It starts with listening and asking open ended questions. It starts with adopting a coaching mindset.

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Idea of the Day: Navigating social media

It’s possible to balance the impact of social media on your life with some personal guidelines, says author Morra Aarons-Mele.

“We’re not lacking, and we’re not failures. We’re just human – and we want to be in community with each other, bringing out each other’s best.”

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It’s Time to Talk to Your Team About Mental Health

HBR On Leadership curates the best case studies and conversations with the world’s top business and management experts, to help you unlock the best in those around you. Morra sits down with HBR on Leadership to discuss how you can help your organization make employee mental health a priority.

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Understanding Social Class Is Key to Belonging at Work

As I watched A Christmas Carol with my kids the other night, it struck me that the holidays are a useful time to consider the role of social class in our lives. And then I thought about my own LinkedIn feed, and its consistent class coding, from the alumni groups I belong to to the photos I share.

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Morra featured by IMD Business School Magazine

Morra and Alyson sit down and discuss how anxiety often gets a bad rap. Yet for millennia, it has arguably helped keep us alive. It can also be a huge motivating factor that pushes us to excel. For this reason, many high achievers are known to experience anxiety

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My Vote For Words of the Year: Loneliness and Belonging

Join LinkedIn News editor-at-large Beth Kutscher and Morra Aarons-Mele, host of The Anxious Achiever podcast, for a live conversation with U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy on the epidemic of loneliness and what it means for workplaces.

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Menopause and the Cost of Silence

Personal issues intersect with work. Learning how to talk about them with respect and understanding is the heart of leadership. “I think that menopause is a human issue. One set of humans experiences it, and it just seems incredibly important that all the humans “get it.”

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Do You “Need” Chaos To Thrive?

Do you feel comfortable in chaos? If you keep moving all the time, it can be easier to avoid feeling uncomfortable feelings. Today’s podcast and newsletter are all about how to stop running, and settle. It’s such a valuable skill (and very challenging for me, I must admit!)

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